Forget all that yappity yap Beyonce was singing about, feelings and ish, I posed to question to myself, if I were a guy, what would I do? What would I be like? Would I date myself? Here’s the break down of Guy-Jess…I’ll name him Justin lol Justin would not do monotony monogamy. He would dabble in different chicks as he saw fit, Justin would be selfish as hell and as long as he got off that’s all that would matter. However, Justin would be F.L.Y. I’m talkin smellin good, lookin good, and I would be all up in a hoe’s psyche LOL-I’m talking riDICulous game…and I’m not being incredulous-I know women…they take a LOT before they’re “done”. Bein real. Tellin her all the simple shit she wants to hear, getting what I want and moving on. Of course my ladies right now are appaulled. Sorry?! But I look at all the things that men get away with now and it would be too tempting not to do it myself. Furthermore, I’m sure that somewhere along the line Justin would meet some dame that was his match and didn’t take his shit, and I’d be intrigued but wouldn’t know how to act for her. So it wouldn’t work out. Kinda the same for Jessica-except I’m not a whoremonger as a woman LOL.
So would I date myself? No. I’d try (as Justin) to get with someone like Jessica just for the challenge but Jessica is way too smart for the likes of Jus and I’d have to step my game up, which is fun when you’re used to just having things easily. So it’d be a game, but never anything serious. There would be too much ego and too much of a power struggle. Not saying that Jess is tryna be a guy, no no no but Justin wouldn’t know what to do w/ someone as strong-willed as he (i) is. Whereas, as a woman I crave a strong guy, even though I’m strong, I know when to back down-Justin wouldn’t lol.
Would I be disrespectful and treat women like hoes? Nah, but I’d treat hoes like hoes. I imagine its way more fun to “invade” than “be invaded”, E (my guy friend) feels that I’d be a selfish lover and not take into account my partners needs. Thats effed up, right? Is it true? Well I don’t know about all that. I’d like to think that I still have a reputation to uphold and if I’ma do something I’ma excel at it lol…but who knows penis makes u stupid. But how much of the “boy me” is embedded in the “girl me” and WHO decided that sex was for boys??? We’re the ones with the ONLY body part created solely for sexual gratification (f wit it) so I say we’ve got a 1up on men.
As a woman, who is happy to BE a woman, I still wonder about these double standards. Something inside a woman’s superego is constantly checking her and moving her away from a hedonistic lifestyle of pleasure. Do men have this same thing? I mean of course they do but is that inner voice as loud? If you take away the social stigma of ‘hoe’ and you always keep safe sex in mind…would you be more of a hoe, Ladies? There’s something to be said about a woman who lives a Samantha Jones lifestyle. With no apologies or excuses, hell its just sex and men do it…why must the woman be the one thinking of “relationships” and “the future”? Who says females can’t just want impulsive pleasure??
So what do you think…if you “were a boy|girl” what kind of guy|girl would you be?? Would you date yourself??