So I was visiting a friend…she was having a talk with an older friend of her brothers about a toxic relationship. We’ve all had them, that one that we know isn’t right for us but we just can’t seem to let go of them. Even harder because they’re cute…and charming…and when its good its so [...]
September 26, 2009
Categories: Friends, Love, The Elle Word . . Author: jessj . Comments: Leave a Comment
So shit changes. If it didn’t change we’d be dead. So I appreciate the changes. Thank you God for different. My mind is kinda full right now so I’m going to attempt to get it all out in here, then maybe I can get another hour of sleep before work. Maybe.
I’m up early for him. [...]
September 5, 2009
Categories: Friends, Life, Love, The Elle Word . . Author: jessj . Comments: 1 Comment
OK this is a non rated G post…just to warn you now….
So last night I’m on twitter late, which rarely happens because…well…I’m old. Anyway so I’m on twitter late and a friend of mine, lets call her Moonbeam, gets on and says that she’s upset. So I ask why? Here is her response?
Moonbeam: *sigggghhhh* this [...]
August 29, 2009
Categories: Friends, Grown Folks Bidness, Life . . Author: jessj . Comments: 5 Comments
The devil can’t stand your praise….theres the reason that people really REALLY canNOT take it when you continuously try to rise above drama. Its funny…someone will come to you and say something that they just KNOW is going to interrupt your day and you keep right on along, “Yeah I heard about it *smile*” they [...]
August 25, 2009
Categories: Day2Day, Friends, Life, Rants & Raves . Tags: doing better, hating ass haters . Author: jessj . Comments: Leave a Comment
So I was talking to a BFF about e-dating…is it still taboo? She was nervous because she’d met a great guy online, but didn’t feel comfortable telling people how she met because she said she thought it felt desperate. Is it, I asked her? I guess I have a different outlook on things. I figure [...]
August 5, 2009
Categories: Friends, Love, The Elle Word . Tags: dating, eharmony, online dating, relationships . Author: jessj . Comments: 4 Comments
So first of all forgive me for not blogging, this week had been INSANE and I’ve had a million hours at work, plus my other writing assignments plus you know sleep? And best friend time lol. That’s another post though…so I’ve been comissioned to be the photographer for my best friend’s wedding. I couldn’t be [...]
June 4, 2009
Categories: Friends . . Author: jessj . Comments: Leave a Comment
I’ve seen people caught in love like whirlwinds
listening to they squads and listening to girlfriends
that’s exactly the point where they whole world ends
lies come in, that’s where that drama begins, she like
~The Roots “You Got Me”
Often times your friends do have your best interest at heart, and they are just trying to help…but more often [...]
May 27, 2009
Categories: Friends, Love, The Elle Word . Tags: Friends, gossip, relationships . Author: jessj . Comments: Leave a Comment
Woooooooo yall lol it was a long weekend. Of course I had BFFB’s bachelorette party saturday which included pre-game mixers at J’s, dinner at Fuego (best effin CRABCAKES omg), then dancing at Opera. If you like house music and crowds oh and expensive ass drinks, then you’d like that. Here’s a few pix:
So that was [...]
May 26, 2009
Categories: Friends, atlanta . Tags: atlanta, fuego, opera, red carpet lanes, tastemakers, the chill spot . Author: jessj . Comments: Leave a Comment
This genius concept was coined by my good friend N…basically it boils down to what is, and what appears to be. I honestly believe that some of you might fight me on this, as I fought N when I first heard her use it, however when its relevant its absolutely 100% the only thing that [...]
May 19, 2009
Categories: Day2Day, Friends, Life, Words of Wisdom . . Author: jessj . Comments: 4 Comments
Listen and read, pay close attention to Dre’s last verse…OutKast “Elevators”
Ok yall…I know these people exist in your life, and its not just me. I really had to address the issue because its kinda getting out of hand these days. Moochers, Beggars, Stow-aways on the “swaggar” train…call them what you will. I call them trifflin [...]
April 20, 2009
Categories: Friends, Rants & Raves . Tags: imposters, posers, tastefakers . Author: jessj . Comments: 3 Comments