I think it is very little difference between art and love. You become emmersed in them. They are life forces, they fill voids you didn’t realize you had. Most importantly both are infinite and undeniable. In the case of finality it is true that neither Artist nor Lovers ever truly finish they simply walk away…and [...]
October 12, 2009
Categories: Day2Day, Love, Question Everything . . Author: jessj . Comments: Leave a Comment
So I was visiting a friend…she was having a talk with an older friend of her brothers about a toxic relationship. We’ve all had them, that one that we know isn’t right for us but we just can’t seem to let go of them. Even harder because they’re cute…and charming…and when its good its so [...]
September 26, 2009
Categories: Friends, Love, The Elle Word . . Author: jessj . Comments: Leave a Comment
I told him, when you hurt I hurt. So he cried and I wiped the tears from my eyes.
I wrote that the other day. Simple right? I was in class and we were discussing relationships and how people just don’t communicate. One lady in class was saying that when she first got married it was [...]
September 23, 2009
Categories: Love, Reflection, The Elle Word . . Author: jessj . Comments: 1 Comment
Love me and the world is mine.
~David Reed
You know…you get to a point in your life when you just think, to hell with it. For me, it was preconceived notions, mental pictures, ideas of perfection. I’m a planner. My life has been planned since forever. I looked in my HS memory book and [...]
September 21, 2009
Categories: Love, Question Everything, Reflection . . Author: jessj . Comments: Leave a Comment
So shit changes. If it didn’t change we’d be dead. So I appreciate the changes. Thank you God for different. My mind is kinda full right now so I’m going to attempt to get it all out in here, then maybe I can get another hour of sleep before work. Maybe.
I’m up early for him. [...]
September 5, 2009
Categories: Friends, Life, Love, The Elle Word . . Author: jessj . Comments: 1 Comment
So I was talking to a BFF about e-dating…is it still taboo? She was nervous because she’d met a great guy online, but didn’t feel comfortable telling people how she met because she said she thought it felt desperate. Is it, I asked her? I guess I have a different outlook on things. I figure [...]
August 5, 2009
Categories: Friends, Love, The Elle Word . Tags: dating, eharmony, online dating, relationships . Author: jessj . Comments: 4 Comments
Do you know why “thirsty” people are called so? Because they are looking for something to quench a desire, a physical need to be satiated, and fulfilled. Unfortunately, these thirsty people often seek water, but settle for chocolate….
Yall know I talk mainly to my Ladies, but Men this can definitely go for you as well…why [...]
July 15, 2009
Categories: Love, Rants & Raves, The Elle Word, Words of Wisdom . Tags: Love, relationships, settling, thirsty men, thirsty women, water for chocolate . Author: jessj . Comments: 4 Comments
Physics this shit is not ~Love Jones
So last night I was talking to a friend of mine, and he made the statement that he will never understand women. Almost at the same time that I was saying how funny it was that men and women still don’t understand each other. I think its because we [...]
June 15, 2009
Categories: Love, The Elle Word . . Author: jessj . Comments: 3 Comments
Pretty clever title eh? Ok whatever don’t clown me…anyway so today I was talking with Chef and S about relationships, when S asked the question, “is it too forward to tell a man upfront that you’re looking to be married in the near future?” On the man side, Chef asked, “…but how are you sure [...]
June 8, 2009
Categories: Life, Love, The Elle Word, The Future . Tags: dating, Love, marriage, relationships, Sternberg's Triangle . Author: jessj . Comments: Leave a Comment
So tell me this…what is attraction? Is it physical attraction…mental attraction…spiritual attraction? Which is stronger? How do you govern the purity of those feelings compared to that of unadulterated animalistic (hedonistic) impulses? Are there those that would only serve the purpose of stimulating your mind with random musings and flights of fancy? Do they trump [...]
June 7, 2009
Categories: Life, Love, Question Everything, Reflection, The Elle Word . . Author: jessj . Comments: 1 Comment