Dr. Destiny

I was talking to a friend of mine this weekend, about where she is in life and how astounding it is; by the age of 25 she will have her MD.  Thats pretty amazing. So we were talking about how despite circumstance or probablility, what is meant for you shall be.  She was destined to [...]

War Eagle?

Now I’m not making any promises…Yall remember back a few months ago I ranked my top choices for a Doctoral program right? Choiced included Penn, Yale, Vandy, etc. Well all that’s scrapped. After working in the Master’s Program I realize that I would did and not make it through an APA-research based Doctoral degree. Its [...]

No bells…but keep the cocktails coming!

So yesterday I was watching the Sex and the City Movie and got to the wedding scene (which always gives me such anxiety, I feel like Big. Why all this shit?!? but everytime I pray for him to just get out of the car and suck it up)…I think its kinda crazy that the character [...]

L (word) M (word)…N-O-P(E)

Pretty clever title eh? Ok whatever don’t clown me…anyway so today I was talking with Chef and S about relationships, when S asked the question, “is it too forward to tell a man upfront that you’re looking to be married in the near future?” On the man side, Chef asked, “…but how are you sure [...]

Love|Hate

The other day I was walkin past the television and Dodge Ball was on, and I guess it was right at the beginning where they are showing “Globo Gym” and Ben Stiller looks into the camera at one point and says, “So!? When are you going to hate yourself enough to change?” That kinda stuck [...]

in dreams…

This is a pic I took from one of my recent shoots…it kinda captured what my emotion right now in that I’m thinking, whats next. Eyes to the sky wondering what it is that I’m supposed to be learning from the places I’m in right now and how these things are going to make me [...]

Paramount

Its my 100th blog!!!  Get excited!!! Too bad I have nothin of any sort of importance to talk about.  I guess lets rewind. Yesterday was off and on ratchet-I kept going to sleep and waking up hoping it would improve. At one point it did, the point where I learned that I would be starting [...]

Or something like it…

So I’ve never been a fan of 2nd rate things…whether it be people, places, or things. B is the 2nd letter of the alphabet and not as good as A. If you can get A why settle for B?  Far too often B is easy and so we take it because B is close enough [...]

After all that I’ve been through…

Of course everybody is reflecting this time of year but I am not putting anything into words because Ciara already has:

[Verse 1:]
21, and I’ve realized,
Everything you want’s not meant to be.
21 then you qualify,
The standard to reponsibilities.
So I tried to prioritize
By deciding what I know is best for me.
And then there’s always, love that tries [...]

lim{x–>∞}f(x) = L

So I was just reading random articles from O Magazine something I, myself, cannot even believe I did. But in reading all these articles about dreams and knowing yourself and being present in the moment and such got me to thinking… I want to get a Masters in Child and Family Studies and/or Marriage and [...]